The Stereotypical Fangirl

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

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respectthefemalebody

If a man says he’s going to hurt himself unless you do what he says, let him. You aren’t responsible for his actions. You are not guilty for what he does to himself, you don’t owe him, you are not his thing to control, you don’t exist to serve him, you are allowed to go on living your life.

antiporn-activist

well, you could give him the suicide hotline and go.

lightanddarkkh

Also you could baker act him. If he says hes gonna kill himself if you break up with him. Break up with him and call 911 saying you suspect this person at this address is going to kill themselves. Like chances are they are lying and trying to manipulate you but if you are scared and think you might feel guilty, you can do that.

Don’t stay woth anyone that pulls that shit. Drop em.

askagenderfluidandgenderflux

Dropping this here because abuse isn’t limited to straight people.

stegosoreus

goes for anyone of any gender

kyraneko

People who hold themselves hostage do not get to be treated only as the hostage. They are the hostage-taker as well, and they are trying for a second hostage.

Also, the ideal wording for a 911 call after someone has threatened to kill themselves is that the person themselves has announced their intention to kill themselves, or said they were going to kill themselves, something like that. “I suspect that they’re going to kill themself” is subjective and vague; “they have said that they are going to kill themself” is a factual statement that communicates useful information about their stated intentions, and if there’s any suspicion that the person is being dishonest about those intentions as a manipulation tactic, it preserves, documents, and centers their dishonesty and releases you from the responsibility for sorting out the person’s true intentions.

Somebody threatening suicide or self-harm as a means of control is trying really hard to be your problem. Yours specifically. Punting that problem to the emergency services and medical system that is trained and equipped to deal with such problems is not only the proper thing to do, but makes it clear that you aren’t about to be guilted into assuming any responsibility that person wants to dump on you.

thesterotypicalfangirl

This is important. Stay safe everyone!

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sandvendor100

Happiness Will Come To You.

gaymacs

when tho

sandvendor100

When You Least Expect It. Probably Late March

wizardshark

reblog for happiness to come for you in late march!

voidfished

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zac--efren

I reblogged this last year and I hung out with blink-182 backstage on March 30. Reblogging again because it worked the first time.

scientiablr

honestly, last year one of the best days of my life happened in late March

excelsior621

Wouldn’t mind some happiness in late March.

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system-lgbt

Anon Hate IS Illegal.

Guys, I’m not kidding.

Suicide-baiting, cyberharassmemt, cyberstalking, death/rape threats, and hate speech are illegal in all 50 states as well as Australia and the UK.

Bullying and Cyberbullying Laws Across America
Please click on any state to learn exactly what the bullying and/or cyberbullying law(s) cover.
Cyberbullying Research Center
Cyberbullying and the Law | Anti-Bullying Alliance
There is no legal definition of cyberbullying within UK law. However there are a number of existing laws that can be applied to cases of cyb
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Cyber-bullying | ACORN
cyber-bullying.jpg Cyber-bullying or stalking occurs when someone engages in offensive, menacing or harassing behaviour through the use
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Some places include school suspension or expels. Some even include jail time for multiple years.

And yes, they can find someone by username or IP alone.

How does the police track VPN users? - Quora
quora.com

Also, yes. There are methods of catching someone’s IP. Even under a VPN.

How To Bait and Catch The Anonymous Person Harassing You On The Internet
Leo Traynor, an Internet user in Ireland, had a problem. More specifically, he had a troll, a very nasty troll.
Forbes

So.

Next time you get hit with anon hate?

Casually remind them you can very easily take this to the next level. And they can earn jail time while you lay back in your chair, having saved yourself and everyone else from a violent criminal.

Your online actions have real life consequences.

Make sure they learn that.

(Just in case there’s a “the police wouldn’t do that” - Yes. They absolutely would.

Pre-teens arrested for cyberbullying before girl's suicide
Two 12-year-olds in Florida were arrested for cyberbullying in connection with the death of a middle-school student who police say hanged he
AP NEWS
Man arrested for cyber bullying Kerala student
The Kerala police on July 28 took into custody the man alleged to have been the key tormentor of Hanan Hamid, the 19-year-old Kerala student
Matters India
Onslow County man accused of cyberbullying
An Onslow County man was arrested Monday after officials conducted an investigation into a cyberbullying case.
WNCT

Or a “I can handle it.” No. That person will continue to harass others as well. And one of them may not be as strong as you. So do it for them and everyone else.

Or a “It’s not that severe.” Yes. It is. People have died because of this. It really is that severe.)

Take action. And make sure the lives of these bullies are truly wrecked.

system-lgbt

You guys better fucking reblog this.

Don’t just like it, reblog it. So people know.

mrcamillaa

Scam Alert - Commissioning Artists Beware

drellvhen

Artists, there’s a scam going around on Twitter at the minute, and you never know, someone might try it over here.

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This guy is messaging commissioning artists and attempting to gain access to their PayPal by pretending to need a code to pay the bill.
Obviously we all know that’s bull, but if someone isn’t paying attention, is unfamiliar with PayPal commissions as a whole, or is just desperate enough for that commission money?  They might fall for it.
OP’s tweet here.

PayPal will not require a code for someone to complete payment.

It’s just not how it works, I know it, you know it, the scammer knows it.  But he’s gambling on the potential that someone (and that someone is mostly likely to be a young, new artist without much commission experience under their belt, let’s be honest) doesn’t know it.  Let’s make sure everyone does.
So if you’d be so kind, please boost the everliving hell out of this.  Don’t let anyone fall prey to this shady, shady individual, either here or on twitter or anywhere else.

najemniczkas

My god, this guy even treats artist like some kind of idiots, geez… Be careful, artists!

Tagging to ask you guys to spread this.

@van-arts @kasper-the-ghost @jacksoopticboop @chronically-illustrated @valkyreskye